Stay Positive.

Sometimes people need to get in pain just to see how life really is. Yes we all can be heartbroken and you can keep on falling down. But you need to move forward, life is full ups and downs. When something happens in your life you need to learn to move on. Just like you were a child, when you fell you learned to stand up. You don’t have to keep on lying down. You need to move on and accept the fact that the person doesn’t love you anymore. If the person did love you in the first place he wouldn’t do things to hurt you, if he did love you he wouldn’t said I don’t love you.

A person that loves you in the first place will fight for every second even if gets hard between them. A person who is willing to fight for you, do everything for you is a person who does love you. You can’t just give up your life because a person doesn’t love you. Sometimes people leave you, but it’s for your own good. Don’t chase after these people, when things are done they are done. And it’s even better, they give you a chance to meet someone better. Believe me you will get through this, even if it will be days, weeks, years. You will get through this. Let it go. Keep your head up and keep on smiling.

Yes, I am absolutely heart broken, but I can’t just let myself down. I can’t let people around me walk away from me because I’m sad. I moving forward, it’s hard but I can. People always leave, even if you try your best to keep them. But if they want to leave let them. Just know that you tried your best, that you did everything that you could. Even if you are crying every night because you miss that person I know you will get over it. Life is complicated but that’s how it works. 

Remember Stay Positive. No matter what, move on. It’s just a chapter in the past, but don’t close the book just turn the page. 

I’m truly lucky.

Stop right there. Think about this. What are the things in your life that you have, that make you genuinely happy and just a lucky person? People forget all the time how lucky they are to have what they do. I’m fortunate to have a illegitimate best friend. It’s something that alot of people want these days, not many people can say that they are satisfied with their friendships. I thankfully can say I have a trustworthy, genuinely kind, and wonderful best friend that I know I can always count on. I have the most wonderful mother who always is looking out for me and checking on me to make sure I’m doing what I’m suppose to in school. Honestly..If she didn’t…I wouldnt be where I am right now. My sister and I are increadibly close and have a great relationship. I live across the street from my best friend who I’ve known for 10 years, and I know she’d always be there for me if I needed her. When you’re down you don’t really think about these things. But if you took the time right now to make a list of things that are wonderful about your life…whenever you feel that way you can just go and look at it. Make a box of all the good things and if you write one thing down everyday, even a memory…they’ll be plenty of reasons to smile again. Don’t forget that you’re much luckier than you believe you are. 

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